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Catching up [Jun. 7th, 2008|01:04 pm]
I haven't posted a real entry in forever, so since I miraculously only have 2 hours of work today, I thought I'd catch up a little. If anyone cares.

Nothing terribly exciting to report. I've been doing a lot of work and a lot of traveling. In the last 6 months, I've been to New York, Detroit, Seattle, Orlando, and San Francisco, with a lot of treks up to LA and a trip to Disneyland. In October, we're heading back to Orlando to go to Disney and Discovery Cove. I'm gonna kiss a dolphin!

Work is the same old. Had a couple of crazy sex books in the last few weeks, which always brightens my day. And I have had countless books where people claim they are having out of body experiences, seeing spirits, talking to God, talking to dead people, or having God or dead people talk through them. I guess the trade-off for having supernatural powers is not being able to spell.

Wow, I don't even know what else to say. I don't think I've had any adventures that anyone would care about. I'm not so good at this blogging thing. If you want to know something, I guess just ask.
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People need to see [Sep. 28th, 2007|05:53 pm]
When I originally started talking about this, I friends-locked the post because I generally don't share posts about my mother with the world. However, this is so insane, so wrong, and so inadvertently funny, I think it's important to share it with everyone. What follows is an e-mail exchange involving me, my mother, and her friends.

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1st message, sent by my mother to about 10 people.

Subject: Obama Alert/Wake up!!! sworn in to office with a Koran.....

> Let us all remain alert concerning Obama's expected
presidential
> > candidacy.
> > The Muslims have said they
plan on destroying the US from the inside
> > out, what better way to
start than at the highest level - through the
> > President of the
United States, one of their own!!!!
> > ALSO, keep in mind that when
he was sworn into office - he DID NOT use
> > the Holy Bible, but
instead the Koran (Their equevelancy to our Bible,
> > but very
different beliefs) Please forward to everyone you know. Would
> > you
want this man leading our
country?

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My response, to all:

Hi.

None of that is true.

http://www.snopes.com/politics/obama/muslim.asp

But hey, mass hysteria is easier than looking up the truth, right?

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A response to all from someone I don't know, identified as Chassih:

Sometimes "mass hysteria" is not so hysterical...

As one who organized & ran tours to Java & Bali (Indonesia), I frequently ran into anti-Semitism, usually spouted by Muslims who'd never seen a Jew in their lives but knew they hated them.

As for Obama's being a member of the United Church of Christ, that is an Afro-centric church with strong ties to a radical Palestinian group, Sabeel. (See the following ADL statement on that church)

<>I removed the article because it's largely irrelevant, but if you'd like to see it, just ask.

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My response, to all:

Oh, yes, how could I forget? All Muslims are evil, right? And Obama must be a Muslim because of his name. And if a Muslim is running for president, it must be part of a secret plot to infiltrate America. That is, after all, what that insightful, uncited, unsupported e-mail told us. And if someone sends me an e-mail claiming that the Jews were behind 9/11 and Bigfoot was spotted in Oregon, I guess I should believe that too, because everything on the internet is true!

I’m sorry, but distrusting all Muslims based on your own negative personal experiences is no different than Muslims distrusting Jews based on lies they have been told.

I’m not even sure who I’m talking to, but I don’t particularly care. That email about Obama swearing in on a Koran is a blatant lie, and to try to and support the sending of that email with unrelated, anecdotal evidence is just in bad taste. I didn’t want to get involved in an argument; I just wanted to stop stupid stories from being spread.

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Then I get an email from Lynne C., asking who I am and "how and why" I am sending her messages. Apparently not everyone is familiar with "Reply to All"

I tell her who I am, and she promptly responds with this (sent only to me):

As Dona's daughter, I think you should know thatI have regard for your mother and her wisdom--As well, you should know that one who sends messages that are unsigned to people she doesn't even know is somewhat creepy-and certainly does not inspire credibility--and, after all, when we talk about ideas we are talking about credibility.  I also think you might learn something of value to you if you tried to understand the important underlying concern of your mother:  that is, the security of the free world and the security of freedom itself.  Those who follow the Koran have, YOU HAVE TO ADMIT, have been the supporters of terrorism against the free world. WHO ELSE have filled the ranks of every known act of terrorism in the last 10 or 15 years?  And, do you also support the ideas of Iran's president?      I can see you are a young woman who at least is trying to engage in world politics and this is good, but you should take time to sort out what you value--I would find it hard to believe that you would value a ruler or a way of life (those who follow the Koran?) who would deny you the right to education--and certainly the right to speak your mind and express you ideas freely.  Have you thought about this?   Please, please--THINK more on the subject.  Lynne C.


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My response to Lynne C (I wasn't even going to bother addressing her insanely racist remarks):

Obama isn’t a Muslim. That was the point of the email I sent out. I appreciate your point and your beliefs, but my point is that before we make judgments, we should know the facts. The e-mail my mother sent was blatantly untrue, and I will not watch someone perpetuate lies and conspiracy theories right under my nose.

And I didn’t sign the email because the names I scanned on the list were mostly family who I knew. But  thank you for calling me creepy, questioning my credibility,  and implying that I don’t know about world issues and politics.

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[Jul. 9th, 2007|09:53 pm]
One of the PODs I work for gave me a book by a twelve-year-old boy. It was a content edit, and I was essentially told to handle it with kid gloves. The thing is, it wasn't bad. The kid is clearly intelligent and has a lot of potential. But it was obvious from the subject matter that he's heavily influenced by anime and trading card games, and that effects his storytelling. It's jumpy and disjointed with quick cuts and little background. I did what I could, within the confines of the assignment, to help him, but obviously I wasn't going to discredit his influences or he'd dismiss everything I said. Then I thought perhaps I should ask if I could write directly to the parents and make the point about giving him entertainment with more solid storytelling to help foster his talents. But I was afraid the parents would read it and take away "Cartoons are bad!"

This company has a policy of not letting the clients know our names. It's understandable, as they don't want angry authors tracking down editors who are just trying to do their jobs. But I do wish that I could let this kid know who I am so I could talk to him more and help him develop.
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[May. 21st, 2007|11:07 pm]
The Heroes finale was so bad. SO BAD!

Worse than magic teardrops on Smallville!
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Make my dreams come true [May. 15th, 2007|02:54 am]
I really want this but I've spent too much money lately. Someone give me some easy, high-paying work so I can get it.



"Lucky Doovoo is a dream guide and is always sleeping! Make a secret drawing, write the name of someone you love, or make any wish you want come to life by using his enchanted black board! His powers can make all your dreams come true."


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[May. 10th, 2007|06:06 pm]
I think this sums up my life.


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[May. 2nd, 2007|05:15 pm]
So this week is Macy's friends & family 20% discount sale. And today I got my Rent.com $100 reward card in the mail for finding an apartment through their site. So what did I buy? A new tokidoki bag. Yes, I have problem. But this one was essentially free!

I also bought a Gama-go jacket that I really don't need but it was so cute and I was sooo cranky. And it's always chilly at night in SD so I want a million cute jackets.

I guess shopping when I'm angry is better than hitting people.

(Also, if anyone wants the Macy's coupon, I'll forward you the e-mail. It's good until the 6th.)
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Yay! The Golden Compass! [Apr. 25th, 2007|06:14 pm]
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[Apr. 19th, 2007|01:22 am]
I just missed my first deadline ever.

One of the companies I edit for sent me 5 books within the span of a week (4 were picture books). Between those and the three other books I had, I just flaked on one of the dates. I thought it was due the 20th but it was due on the 16th. The worst part is, I had it done. I did it on my Treo and just had to convert it. So I just sent it off now with a million apologies. We'll see what happens. No one on their end said anything...I don't think they even realized. But they will now.
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[Apr. 2nd, 2007|04:38 pm]
When I read this sentence--“Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented fibulas?"-- I know that it's supposed to say, "talented, and fabulous?"

I'm not sure if that's something to be proud of or depressed about.
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[Mar. 25th, 2007|11:12 pm]
I don't believe for a second that any of them are cylons. I think it's all a swerve. Unfortunately, it will probably be a swerve that will cost them many viewers.
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I'm a major risk [Mar. 22nd, 2007|05:08 pm]
Today I was denied health insurance.

I know I haven't posted about the new place and I have a lot of catching up to do, but this story seemed a bit more pressing.

I applied for Blue Cross CA a little over a week ago. I never had any trouble getting health insurance in NY, and didn't expect a problem now since I'm on effective, low-cost treatments for my preexisting conditions. But the letter came today that I could not be covered due to my migraines. It doesn't seem to matter that I'm on generic preventative medication, which can be purchased at Target for $4. It also stated that the only way I could be covered is if I am symptom and TREATMENT free for TWO years. That means my migraines would have to magically disappear, without treatment.

So apparently my only option is to apply for California Major Risk Medical Insurance. Major risk! Like as if I had cancer. How are migraines a major risk? There are no long-term complications associated with migraines. I'm not going to need surgery or rehab or physical therapy. And Blue Cross knew what medications I take, all of which are on their approved list. But whatever.

The Major Risk insurance actually didn't sound so bad. It's just a little more than I was planning on paying, and it's a better plan. The only problem is that the available slots can fill up and then you end up on a wait list. So I called the number and said, "Before I fill out the application, can you tell me if there's any availability?" I was told that there were some spots left for April, but my papers would have to be in their office by tomorrow, otherwise it would have to wait for May--and there was no guarantee that there'd be spots in May. I asked for the address to see if I could drop the papers off, but the office is three hours away.

It was 3:30, so I sent Marc downstairs to the mailboxes place to see if we could catch FedEx, and I started filling out the forms. Luckily, I had until 4:30. So at 4 I run downstairs with the papers, only to be told that I can't FedEx something to the PO Box listed on the application. Well, I had the office address, and I figured that if I was allowed to drop papers off in person, I should be allowed to FedEx the papers directly there. Back upstairs for the address, then downstairs agin to mail it off...all in my pajamas with my hair unbrushed. It cost me $20 to overnight it, and now I'm afraid they won't process it because I didn't send it to the address listed on the application.

The icing on this cake is that I woke up in the middle of the night last night with a migraine and had to sit in the shower before falling back asleep. I then woke up with the migraine, which hasn't gone away, and had to get all this nonsense figured out with my head throbbing. I have since gone back in the shower, and no, I still don't have the strength to brush my hair.
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And now the good news [Feb. 9th, 2007|07:43 pm]
The short version: We found an apartment in exactly the location we wanted, for exactly the price we wanted, and with more space than we expected. We got a two bedroom across the street from Ralphs and a block from Horton Plaza for what we're paying now for our one bedroom.

Please do not ask me if you can sleep on my floor for the convention. We have my dad staying with us, and I don't want to subject him to stepping over 10 people just to get to the bathroom in the morning.

More details to come, if anyone actually cares.
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[Feb. 2nd, 2007|12:58 pm]
I just called this one apartment that I saw an ad for, and this old lady answers and just says "Hello" so already it's weird because it sounds like I have the wrong number. I start talking to her about the apartment and first she says she doesn't want to let me sign a lease for March 1st if I come in next week, because she doesn't want to leave it empty that long. Meanwhile, the rental market in San Diego is such that most places are offering free months so I know this is bullshit.

Then when I mention that it's me and my boyfriend she goes, "Oh...do you have jobs?" in this really bizarre questioning tone. And certainly that is the kind of thing that a landlord wants to know, but usually it's done tactfully with an application and a credit check. After I explain to her that yes, we do have jobs and I own my own company, she goes, "Is that...steady?" And she keeps asking me questions like that in this really rude sort of way like she doesn't believe that I'm going to be able to pay for the apartment. So I tell her how much I make a year and how much I have in savings, which is more than enough to qualify for the apartment on my own. I also explain that I've been paying this same amount of rent for years with no problem. Finally she's like, "Oh...well I guess if you have enough savings to take care of things."

It was just so rude. Like I almost don't even want to look at the place.
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Help me pick [Feb. 1st, 2007|03:07 pm]
We're going to look at apartments on Monday. I realize that actually seeing the apartments in person may change how I feel about them, but I have done extensive research into their layouts and amenities. It makes me feel better to analyze them ahead of time and decide what is really important to me so that the ultimate decision will be easier. All three choices are within 4 blocks of each other so location isn't an issue. Here are the pros and cons of each. Thoughts?

Apartment 1 -- The Most Expensive
750 sq feet, mezzanine loft

Basically, the bedroom is upstairs and not completely enclosed. Two sides are open to below with what looks like a 4-foot wall on the other sides, allowing you to look below. Everything is brand-new, never been lived in, and top of the line. W/D in the unit. Super high ceilings with tons of windows. It's beautiful. But it only has one closet, which is in the bedroom.

The building has a gym, a business center, a rooftop deck with cabanas and fire pits. It's beautiful. No pool, though.

Apartment 2 -- The Least Expensive
750 sq feet

This is a traditional one bedroom. It seems to have lots of storage space and a nice-sized kitchen, but the building is older and the apartment just isn't as pretty as the first. There's no W/D in the unit, although there is one on each floor. I'm not sure if they're quarters-only or not (which would be a drawback). This building has a courtyard with a pool.

Apartment 3 -- Mid-priced
2 floor loft, 1000 sq feet

This would seem like the obvious choice. It's huge, some of the units have two bathrooms, there's no pool but there's a basic rooftop deck. There's no gym or anything but I'm lazy anyway. Some of the units have W/D in the unit, otherwise there's a laundry room on each floor. So what's the problem?

Well, the bedroom is upstairs but with a loft set-up with railings that look fairly low. That cuts back on privacy, and also gives me vertigo. I'm afraid I will never get used to it. Take a look

http://cornerstonelofts.cityfromabove.com/siteImages/cornerstonelofts_photosC.gif
http://cornerstonelofts.cityfromabove.com/siteImages/cornerstonelofts_photosD.gif

Of course, if anyone can think of something that can be put on the railings or done to the railings to fix this problem, please let me know. Because I would like to be able to live there without worrying that I might sleepwalk over the edge one night.

*Edit: I just found out there's no AC. There are ceiling fans, but that might not be enough when it's in the high 80s.
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More! [Jan. 31st, 2007|05:37 pm]
Today's one of those days when I have a lot of yapping to do.

I realized that I'm a total weakling, at least as far as my upper body is concerned. So now I'm trying to lift weights every day (only ten pounds...I'm weak!) to try and build up at least a little strength before the move. How am I going to be of any use if I can't lift anything? The beta-blockers don't help; I get winded so easily. But I have to at least give it a shot. As if I didn't have enough stuff to do to prepare for the move.
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[Jan. 31st, 2007|03:13 pm]
I really hate people today. I traded coffee with a few different people on this single serve coffee site. One guy didn't get his package, and started asking me what happened. I told him when I sent it (day and time), how I sent it (first class), and let him know that I had my receipt. Then he messages me again asking about it, as if I know what the post office does with the package once it leaves my hands. I suggested he call his local post office and see if any undeliverable packages are sitting there.

So then he started yelling at me that it was my responsibility to find out what happened to his package. I pointed out that another trade I sent at the very same time arrived with no problem, so clearly the problem wasn't on my end. The packages left my post office.

I had been planning to offer to send the guy his coffee back, but then he was such an asshole about it. He was like, "How you would you feel if you didn't get your coffee after you traded with someone?" and I was like, "How would you feel if you paid money to send someone a package and fulfilled your end of the bargain and then you were harassed about it?" Why should I give him his stuff back? Then I'm out 19 k-cups!

Call the fucking post office, you stupid shit! I'm not going to help you if you're going to be an ass to me.
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[Jan. 25th, 2007|11:45 pm]
Today I purchased this:



This lovely cookie jar came out as I was finishing high school. I used to go to the Warner Bros. store and stare at it and tell my dad, "That's the first thing I'm going to buy when I get my own apartment."

But then I got my own apartment and it was about 12x12. There was no place to properly display the cookie jar. So I put it off. And then the Warner Bros. store went out of business.

Now, almost ten years later, as I'm about to move to a new apartment in a new city, I finally got my beautiful cookie jar. I can't tell you how happy this makes me.
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[Jan. 22nd, 2007|07:39 pm]
Perhaps I'm from another planet or something, because I thought Children of Men was absolutely terrible. I would have walked out if I had been alone. And yet everyone loves it.
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[Jan. 17th, 2007|08:10 pm]
I have loved Mr. Winkle for a few years now, but after watching this video, I said to Marc, "You know, I think Mr. Winkle may be retarded." To which Marc said, "I think he is, just in a very cute way."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESoXmPpxYKc&mode=related&search=
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